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Stories

Read what youth, adults, seniors, and educators have to say about Youth Empowering Parents

Learning together

Youth teaching the adults in their lives

Selam and her mother, Yordanos

Selam & her mother, Yordanos

“At home, my parents call the shots. Here, I call the shots.”
— Selam, youth tutor
“She is getting professional training on how to be a great teacher at a young age.”
— Yordanos, her mother

The first thing I showed my mom was how to turn on the computer. Every day she got more confident, and pretty soon she was going on the internet and filling out job applications by herself.

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I’ve always helped my mom with stuff at home. But at home, we just talk in our own language. Here, she’s trying to learn as much English and computer stuff as she can, and I get to help her.

I love the role reversal. At home, my parents call the shots. Here, I call the shots. I’m learning how to be an adult. And I think I’m speaking for most kids like me: my mother sees another side of me and I see another side of my mother. It’s really cool.

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Jamie

JamieAdult & Senior Learner

Seeing his family’s faces again after 30 years

“I got to see my sister’s face after 30 years. I can’t describe how that felt.”

I moved to Canada from Guatemala 30 years ago, and for 30 years I didn’t see my family’s faces. I called them once a week with calling cards, but that cost money, and it wasn’t the same as seeing them.

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Canada gave me a safe home and a chance to start a new life. But adjusting was hard. I didn’t know the language, the people, or the culture.

I went to other community classes, but the fees were hard to afford. I am a pensioner, so I don’t have much money. Then I heard about YEP and I came here. I’ve been coming for two years now. Children are patient. I like learning from them.

One day, a young volunteer showed me an app that let me see my family. I got to see my sister’s face after 30 years. I can’t describe how that felt.

Now I know how to use a mobile phone, the internet, Facebook, Messenger, and WhatsApp, and even how to take a photo. I can talk to my sister and my niece back home, and I know how everyone in my country is doing.

A youth tutor helping a senior use a laptop

AlexYouth Leader

Teaching his grandparents technology led to running his own program

“I can lead, I can teach, I can manage, and I can make an impact!”

My name is Alex, and I’m 17. My grandparents struggled with everyday technology, from ordering things online to sending text messages. Seeing their frustration, I knew I had to step in.

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I joined YEP and began teaching seniors and adults in my community how to use technology with confidence. Soon after, YEP gave me the chance to start my own program in my neighbourhood, bringing together local youth tutors and seniors eager to learn.

Leading my own program taught me leadership, organization, advertising, and even budget management. I can lead, I can teach, I can manage, and I can make an impact!

Michelle Lee

Michelle LeeEducator

Watching a struggling student turn things around

“It feels so great to be able to help others and see their progress.”

Week after week at the YEP program at a local high school, one student met me with rude remarks. No matter what I did, I was met with resistance, and I was exhausted. I knew it wasn’t going to be easy. But by the second session of the program, he had become more polite, and he even invited me to a play he was in.

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He went from being a kid who was always called to the office to doing really well at school and taking part in at least three after-school programs. That’s the best part of being a YEP facilitator. I love seeing people’s progress from the time they join the program to when it ends.

My schedule is hectic, which makes it tough to keep facilitating, but something still makes me want to remain part of the YEP family. YEP keeps you humble. Sometimes, it makes me so emotional that I cry. It feels so great to be able to help others and see their progress. Being part of that gives you so much more than anything else.

Yaxin with the seniors and youth tutors in her English program

YaxinYouth Leader

Bringing English lessons to Chinese seniors in her own neighbourhood

“I’m helping people in another community, but every day I see people in my own community who also need help, and I wanted to help them.”

Yaxin, 16, was tutoring ESL in one of our programs, about 20 minutes from her home. Near where she lives, in the College and Spadina area of Toronto, she often saw seniors going to a local Chinese community centre. Many of them don’t speak English well, a challenge her own parents faced when they moved to Canada.

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“I’m helping people in another community, but every day I see people in my own community who also need help, and I wanted to help them.”

With our help, Yaxin pitched the community centre for weekly space and signed up about two dozen seniors. She asked them what they wanted to learn, like finding items in a grocery store and talking to a doctor, and wrote the lessons herself in English and Chinese. She recruited Chinese-speaking youth to tutor the seniors one-on-one, and co-ran the program with our team over the summer.

“The seniors started their own group chat to stay in touch, and when the weather was bad, everyone still showed up to class. Seeing that commitment, and how much they were learning, was my biggest reward.”

Two student MCs reading a letter to adult learners at a graduation ceremony

Grade 5 tutorsYouth Leader

Young tutors and adult learners build bonds across generations

“Thanks to you, we now call ourselves teachers.”

Every year, students at elementary schools across Canada take on teaching roles for adults and seniors in their neighbourhoods.

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At a graduation event at a school in Toronto’s Regent Park community, one student shared a letter on behalf of her cohort about what the experience meant to them:

“Throughout this journey of learning and sharing, we’ve discovered the true meaning of the power of mixed-aged connections. We were shy and we were nervous, and we weren’t sure if we would succeed. Your willingness to talk to us, to listen to us, and to learn alongside us, has been inspiring, and it made us realize what we are capable of doing. Thanks to you, we now call ourselves teachers.

Your presence has made an impact on us, teaching us valuable lessons of respect and patience. We will treasure the memories we made together, and we hope to continue building upon the bonds we’ve formed. We are happy to have met each one of you and look forward to more future lessons. Thank you for everything!”

For many of the young people we work with, YEP is their first leadership experience. Some face personal challenges, like a fear of public speaking, shyness, or getting frustrated easily. Through YEP, they get the chance to grow in confidence and discover what they’re capable of.

Estella

EstellaAdult & Senior Learner

From relying on her husband to doing it all on her own

“Now I can also do things on my own. And I feel Canadian.”

I moved to Canada from El Salvador and fell in love with the country right away. What I like most is the bus drivers. If someone in a wheelchair is waiting, they make sure the person can get on and travel comfortably. Back in my country, they don’t do that.

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But adjusting was hard. I didn’t know the language or the culture, or how to use technology to get around. I was scared to go places alone, so I always relied on my husband.

I was even scared to get a smartphone or a computer, because I didn’t know how to use one. Now I use Facebook and WhatsApp to talk to my family in El Salvador, and I watch news about my country on the computer. Next, I want to learn Gmail and how to save, upload, and download photos.

I’ve taken other classes before, but what I like about YEP is that it’s one-on-one, just for me. And being taught by a young person? I feel young! Now I can also do things on my own. And I feel Canadian.

Alastair Roberts

Alastair RobertsEducator

Not giving up on the kids others give up on

“When kids are difficult, the education system kind of quits on them.”

I work at YEP and manage the dance program at Lord Dufferin Public School, where the students are the teachers and show their teachers how to dance. I first came to YEP through a community placement while studying at George Brown College.

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Working with youth wasn’t my first choice. But working with the kids in this program changed how I saw them, and it’s why I ended up working at YEP. For youth like these, it’s important to engage them, talk to them, and be there for them. When kids are difficult, the education system kind of quits on them.

The kids still swore and seemed disinterested at times, but changes were happening. Because we didn’t give up on them, they gained self-confidence and their attendance improved. One student said, “I like how the kids taught the teachers, because in class when they are teaching me, I sometimes feel dumb, and I don’t want to feel that. I want to teach somebody what they can learn from me.”

I’ve learned a lot too: to be more patient, how to be a better facilitator, and when to step back. Adults are used to taking the lead with a group of kids, but here the students take the lead. Even though it was challenging, the group of students we taught were hilarious.

Mohmed, a youth leader, smiling and giving a thumbs up

MohmedYouth Leader

A 16-year-old’s mission to protect seniors from online scams

“By working together, we can make the internet a safer place for everyone—one workshop at a time.”

My name is Mohmed. At just 16, I lost a significant amount of money through an online banking scam. I realized how easy it was to be deceived, and that seniors, who may be less familiar with technology, were even more vulnerable. That’s when I decided to take action.

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I approached YEP with an idea: a program at my local library in Winnipeg where youth teach seniors how to protect themselves from online scams. I told my teachers and recruited youth from my high school to volunteer. Together, we worked one-on-one with seniors who came to the library, running weekly sessions on how to spot and avoid financial scams.

Seeing seniors feel more confident online, and knowing that youth were gaining valuable knowledge too, made all the effort worth it. By working together, we can make the internet a safer place for everyone—one workshop at a time.

Ferial

FerialAdult & Senior Learner

Finally getting the one-on-one help she needed

“I’m really happy to be learning from these young people.”

I was writing an important email when I pressed the wrong button, and suddenly EVERYTHING WAS IN CAPS. I didn’t know how to fix it, and I had to send it quickly, so I just sent it like that!

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I didn’t grow up with computers like young people today, so using one was scary for me.

Before YEP, I took a computer course in my neighbourhood. But the teacher had dozens of students, all at different levels, and I couldn’t get the help I needed. I felt defeated, so I left.

When I heard about YEP, I jumped at the chance. Here, I learn one-on-one. The young people grew up with this technology, so things that felt complicated quickly became simple. I’m still learning, and now I use the computer in my everyday life. I’m really happy to be learning from these young people.

Daniel

DanielYouth Leader

From no patience to Youth Director

“YEP helped to increase my leadership skills.”

When Daniel first joined YEP as a tutor at For Youth Initiative (FYI), the local nonprofit youth organization he goes to, he didn’t think he had the patience to teach an adult. Still, he gave it a try, and so began his journey of change.

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After a couple of years of tutoring, Daniel wanted to try running the program himself. He started leading it at FYI in Toronto, then brought it to a second community he knew well, in Etobicoke, where he’d noticed adults and seniors having trouble learning. He thought YEP would be a great fit there, and got it set up too.

A few years later, Daniel became Youth Director at FYI, his local nonprofit youth organization. “YEP helped to increase my leadership skills. It has helped improve my patience and my writing skills as well,” he says.

“Sometimes, when you are teaching them, the seniors start telling you their stories, everything they have been through in their lives. They start giving you advice, and you start relating to it. You build a connection.”

Vanessa Oppong

Vanessa OppongEducator

She saw their excitement and knew she was in the right place

“It’s like a chain. It feels great to be a part of it.”

On my first day as a program facilitator, the internet was down and the youth couldn’t teach the lesson they had planned. So we taught the adults how to take photos on their smartphones instead. The excitement on their faces as they learned to take selfies told me I had come to the right place.

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I’m a facilitator of the YEP program at a local community health centre. What makes YEP different is that it’s mutually beneficial. A lot of summer and after-school programs are focused on helping students, but in this program, the students help somebody else. A lot of students are shy when they come in. But as we train them, they get comfortable, and now I see them just walk up to seniors and start a conversation.

One of the things I like most about YEP is meeting new people. I get to train the youth, who in turn teach the adults. It’s like a chain. It feels great to be a part of it.

Cloyce Weaver

Cloyce WeaverEducator

Reaching the students school doesn’t work for

“YEP is hooking those kids who do not see themselves as fitting in at school.”

I’ve worked in education for decades, as a teacher, a principal, and a Student Achievement Officer with the Ontario Ministry of Education. Now I’m a Program Specialist at YEP.

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In my background as a principal and teacher, I have realized that there’s a bunch of kids for whom school does not work. The structure is all wrong for their needs and learning styles. YEP is hooking those kids who do not see themselves as fitting in at school.

A school should focus not just on students’ academic performance, but on their well-being, and give them a sense of belonging. There’s definitely more to a school community than YEP. However, YEP gets them through the door. It makes them feel comfortable within the actual physical environment of the school.

Most after-school and summer programs are facilitated by adults, and they are done to and for students, not by students. That’s the huge benefit of YEP. It is all about students.

Thuan Lee

Thuan LeeYouth Leader

His face lights up when he sees them happy

“It makes me happy that they know how to do things on their own now.”

I’m 16, and I started volunteering with YEP as a youth tutor. Within two months, I already felt at ease. It’s a fun experience. You get to help people, and it just puts a smile on your face when you see them happy.

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I’m a big video gamer, so technology comes naturally to me. At YEP, I teach adults how to use a computer, a smartphone, Facebook, Messenger, and WhatsApp. Many seniors have never even heard of Facebook or WhatsApp. I believe it’s good for them to know the basic technology we have now.

They get excited after you help them and they’ve learned what to do. I can tell they’re happier.

YEP has helped me too. I feel happier and more confident talking to people than I did before, and I’m more patient and understanding toward others. What I like most? It makes me happy that they know how to do things on their own now.

Laiba Zaman

Laiba ZamanYouth Leader

Watching her mother change after ten years of trying

“That was the most important thing for me: it brought a change in my mother.”

When she heard about the program, Laiba Zaman was immediately hooked. She became one of the first volunteers in YEP’s program in Spain, and her mother joined as a participant. A year later, Laiba became a program facilitator.

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“My mother went to other language schools for ten years, but I saw no difference in her. When we started this project, I noticed that she was getting better. That was the most important thing for me: it brought a change in my mother.”

“I remember when I was a student tutor, a woman came to class for the first time. It was her first time in any classroom. She never had any education because her mom died when she was young and she had to take care of her siblings. After the lesson, when she wrote her name on the whiteboard, she was in tears and said, ‘My dream is now fulfilled.’”

Laiba says the program has greatly improved her self-confidence. “When I started out, I did not think I would be able to do this.”

Yussef

YussefYouth Leader

Creating positivity in his community

“This program is taking steps in the right direction and getting them integrated into Canada.”

YEP is a contrast to all of the negative things that happen in my neighbourhood. Just by living here, we youth aren’t viewed in a positive light, even if we aren’t guilty of anything. Here, we get to show a side that many didn’t know existed.

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Around the time I joined, my neighbourhood wasn’t safe at all. There were a lot of shootings. I remember reading that police counted something like 90 bullets across those shootings in just a few months. Our neighbourhood got a lot of bad press. I wanted to change how people saw where I live, do something positive, and be able to support other people.

Many adults can live here for many years and still feel like they just came to Canada. This program is taking steps in the right direction and getting them integrated into Canada.

I’ve helped four adults in my community, and I’ve grown up a lot along the way. For me, YEP isn’t just about helping adults. It lets youth feel valuable, and that creates leaders who can change the story of our community.

Mariam

MariamEducator

Learning to lead a classroom

“They not only learn a lot about themselves but also about their surrounding community.”

A teacher I had in high school inspired me to become a teacher myself. My goal is to make the same difference in my students’ lives that she made in mine.

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As part of my studies, a community placement was required, and I was paired with YEP. I became a facilitator for YEP programs in a few different locations.

At first, I felt uneasy. I kept thinking, how am I going to facilitate students I have no relationship with and run a program? Keeping the kids engaged at all times was a challenge, and visual presentations helped them stay focused on the goals for the day.

As the weeks went on, the students built meaningful relationships with the adults and grew so much in confidence. They began to take the lead. I became more confident too, and I learned patience by watching them show patience and compassion to the adult learners. They not only learn a lot about themselves but also about their surrounding community.

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